Many of you must be wondering why
you didn't see a post on my blog, last week. Well, I was voluntarily enrolled
in a ‘Management lesson from the kitchen’ course. I didn't have much time to do
anything else. How does a mundane kitchen teach lessons in management? It all
started like this.
A few relatives visited my home,
last week. It consisted of my
mother-in-law’s sister, her husband, and their two kids aged 8 and 13 years and
my brother-in-law. Until now, I have cooked for maximum of two to four people.
Being the woman of the house, I had to take the responsibility of the
breakfast, lunch and dinner for all the seven of us. I was surprised as to how
much effort takes in making a decent meal for seven people, three times a day. All
the more, my mother-in-law is a vegetarian, my brother-in-law an eggetarian, my
cousins daltarian or pappucharutarian (eat only dal, sambar or pappucharu), my
husband and my father-in-law are non-vegetarian. Whatever the menu, it had to
cater to the eating habits of all these four sects of people; hence there should
be minimum three dishes, which excludes rice/chapthi and yoghurt. The day used to start with breakfast. By the
time I was done with the breakfast, it was time to prepare lunch. By the time,
I was done with the lunch it was already 3 PM. I was on my feet from 8 AM to 3
PM. The dinner preparations started from 7 PM. Thankfully, I have a cook, so my
effort involved in directing her what to do. In spite of all this
planning and hard work, my husband came to me and asked, ‘Aren’t you making dal?’. I did reprimand him and gave an expression
which conveyed a very deep meaning.
After this exercise for about
three days, I was exhausted. I also had a new found appreciation for my mother
and my mother-in-law. My mother is a Gynaecologist. In spite of her busy work
life, she always kept on the table, the most well-balanced meal for the four of
us (my father, grandmother and I) every day. She also had a special menu every
Sunday, used to entertain guests sometimes and she always worked solo in the kitchen,
with a little help from me and my grandmother. My mother-in-law is a homemaker
and is from a big family. She entertains lot of relatives for festivals/family
functions, which also involves considerable cooking.
The woman’s role in the kitchen is
quite trivialized. It is not as inconsequential as it seems. The kitchen teaches important lessons in management.What are the
management lessons I learned?
1.Groundwork:
Who will eat what? What will they eat heartily, what could they leave? Is
anybody following a special ritual on that day? ( no eggs or meat on one
weekday)
2.Planning:
How many people are there? What has to be cooked? How much has to be cooked
so that it will be sufficient for everybody? What are the ingredients required?
Are there any preparations to be made the day before? (For example, idli, dosa
etc.)
3.Delegation:
Whom to delegate what responsibility? Who will go outside and get the required
stuff? Who will cut the veggies? Who will make what dishes? Etc.
4.Execution:
There are only two stoves. Which dishes go first on the stoves? What should go next? How can the two
stoves keep on running simultaneously for maximum savings in time?
5.Appraisal:
Needless to say this never goes as well as planned. The men come onto the
dinner table, eat and leave with least appreciation. There goes a ton of
effort unobserved and taken for granted. I did belong to this league until I
started cooking. After that I started appreciating my mother, whenever
possible.
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