Taco Bell opened up in our neighbourhood. My husband and I
went for lunch at Taco Bell. The restaurant was very hippy; the walls were
covered with portraits of people who were enjoying life, skydiving and what
not. The music was loud. My hubby went to place the order and I sat at one of
the tables to hold it. At my next table there was a group of kids between 10
-12 years old, enjoying their nachos. They were almost done with their lunch.
One of the senior waiters from the restaurant came to them
and asked, ‘Did you like it?’
The bravest or the most well-mannered kid in the group
answered, ‘Yes’
‘Are you going to come
again?’
‘Yes’
‘Please visit us again’
All the little heads in the group nodded to that statement.
My husband bought over the nachos and the quesadilla’s dripping with cheese. I
looked at my cheesy fatty food, looked at him and said, ‘Kids of this generation will grow up very differently from us’.
He replied, ‘Yes, it’s
true’
The first time I went outside to
eat with my friends was in my Bachelors. As I write this, I recollect my
aunt telling her teenage daughter, who asked for more clothes, ‘You know, when I was of your age I had only
two sarees. When one was up for washing
I used to wear the other one’. I also remember the lovely pouty face of my
cousin, who brushed her mother’s gyaan aside by saying, ‘I KNOW MOM, but you belong to a completely different generation’.
I visualize the same thing happening with my kids,’ You know what? The first time I ate outside was in Bachelors. I did
not even have pocket money until Engineering’. I always thought I will never
impart such gyaan to my kids; it is unfortunate that I will also join the generation-gap
bandwagon of parents.
The cities have changed with time
and brought a change in lifestyle, malls, restaurants, movie theatres and game
centres are everywhere. The working upper middle class parents can afford to
provide the best experiences for their kids. The real question is, ‘Do these kids really know where the money
to afford such lifestyle comes from?’
One of my colleagues mentioned
casually that when his son asks him for anything and he says, ‘I don’t have money’. His son simply
replies, ‘Go to the ATM and get it’.
For the kids, the ATM is the ultimate money giving machine; you can just go
there, withdraw and spend money. The yester generation used to scold our
monetary demands by saying, ‘Money does
not grow on trees’. For today’s generation, ‘Money grows in ATMs’.
We have to educate our children
about the language of paisa. How to earn, manage and grow money? We need to
dispel the myth about credit cards, 0 interest rates and zero payments on
credit cards. Opening a bank account is one of the best ways to learn about
managing money. Banks like ICICI Bank, ING Vysya Bank, HDFC Bank and Kotak
Mahindra Bank provide savings bank accounts for children (between 7-18 years). Help the kids manage their pocket money and
understand that money does not grow in ATMs. More information about how to
educate children about finances can be obtained from the link below.
http://www.rediff.com/business/slide-show/slide-show-1-perfin-want-to-teach-your-child-importance-of-saving-try-this/20120822.htm#1
More than 2 years ago I heard this. A boy wanted to buy some article of routine use. The cost was exorbitant according to father. He asked son to get adjusted and by a similar one at a lower price. Son told his father, " why do you ask me to adjust? why don't you earn enough?"
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